In a world that moves faster and faster, there is one piece to the puzzle of life that is truly irreplaceable. It is something that can’t be substituted by technology and can’t be created in an assembly line.

It’s people.

People are one of the greatest assets in life. People are unique and are full of different skills and talents. People make the world go round.

People bring laughter to a room. They bring energy and excitement to work, whatever that work may be. People also bring compassion and helping hands, providing encouragement and support to others who are hurting.

While robots are cool and science is on the cutting-edge of incredible advancements and discoveries, there is nothing more precious, amazing, and powerful than human life.

For me, my relationships fill my bucket. I love people. I am blessed to have a great wife, great kids, friends and colleagues—each who love and support me. I hope the same is true for you. These incredible people are in my core. They know me, complete with my flaws, and they love me anyway.

There are people in your core, who love the whole you, including any past mistakes or flaws. These people are part of your world and are part of your beautiful story.

When my kids were little, we tried to teach them two simple, yet timeless truths:

  • Treat others as you want to be treated.
  • Don’t make assumptions or pass judgments on others.

This simple advice, that can easily be explained to a child, is still powerful in the life of an adult. Life is precious and short. It’s important that we treat people—all people—with respect and kindness. You simply can’t go wrong if you live your life with this principle. Don’t assume things about other people. You’re not walking in their shoes; you should not quickly pass judgement when you may not understand the full situation.

Later on in life I read an amazing little book, The Four Agreements, by Miguel Ruiz. This book gives straightforward advice on how one can best live their life, and also have the best relations with other people. The Four Agreements are:

Be Impeccable With Your Word. Only say things, in all situations, that will make a positive impact on others and yourself. Literally. Always speak with integrity, and say only what you mean.

Don’t Take Anything Personally. Nothing that other people do is really because of you. People all see the world differently and how others treat us has more to do with their view of the world than it does with us.

Don’t Make Assumptions. We don’t know anyone else’s circumstances and we can’t read their minds. We are better off not assuming things about people.

Always Do Your Best. Doing your best will give you a sense of peace, knowing you gave it your all. Doing more could cause burn-out and doing less than your best is just laziness. Doing your best in life is the greatest gift you can give to yourself and others along the way.

I really recommend that you read this book. I know that on the days when I live with these four “agreements” in mind and as my guide, I have much better days. I also know that these ideas help me behave in a way that honors the importance that people have in my life.

I hope you and the people in your life continue to enjoy peace and flourish over time.

Cheers!

Coach Brett Blair

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